Tuesday, May 27, 2014

#GauchoStrong

I went to UCSB from 1995-1999. My time there was filled with friends, parties, the beach, academics, classes, bicycling, running, goofing off, walking, drinking beer, singing karaoke, fighting, crying, drinking jungle juice, dancing, meeting new people, making friends, dressing up, walking in heels, eating toast, drinking tea, making turkey dinner, watching 90210, Friends and South Park, going to our neighbor's house, going to our other neighbor's house, showing visitors around, consoling friends after breakups, trying to surf, working at the UCen, seeing Stephen Hawking, playing with sea urchins, loving Developmental Biology and basically not wanting to leave. Although I've been gone for 15 years, not a day goes by that I don't think about my time there and formative, powerful, and amazing. Bad things happened, but nothing like a mass shooting. Nothing like the insanity that the UCSB students have to deal with now.
My heart is broken. IV was always our spot - a place for the students to hang out, and be. We weren't part of Santa Barbara, we didn't have to dress up to go anywhere. It was OK to wear our PJs to the market, we could let our guard down, and be ourselves. We were safe. Our friends watched out for us. Everyone walked everyone else home. We watched out for people who weren't our friends - always trying to make sure everyone got home safe. We walked DP, going in and out of the houses having parties. We burned couches. We dressed up for Halloween. Nobody died. Guns were not even part of the conversation.

I'm not sure what else to say.

I'm just heartbroken. So incredibly heartbroken.

Wknd update

Eating cucumber and watermelon
Cat toys are baby toys?
Napping in the tent on the beach
Walking with Daddy on the beach
Stylish sleeping
Got sick of the stroller- Daddy's shoulders are much better
At the farmers mkt
Alex finally found his family pack
Old planes flew overhead

Thursday, May 22, 2014

Moving

In the past couple days, I have found my son with two different electrical cords in his mouth. Also, my shoes. Hope this kid has a good immune system...

Monday, March 17, 2014

Baby pics / wknd pics


Going to daycare
Eating a book
Napping in his crib for first time!
Adorable
Baseball?
Baby selfie
Hanging out at the farmers market
Smiles for Mommy
Upside down baby with Mommy

Pretty chill weekend - did chores & ran errands. Why are there never enough hours in the day?

Wednesday, March 12, 2014

Gratuitous baby pics


Baby selfie
Smiles
Tummy time
Costco baby selfie
Beach with Grammy
Taking off Daddy's glasses
Toes are fantastic
Tummy smiles
Giggles

Monday, March 3, 2014

Great weekend Wrapup

1) I took D to work with me on Friday. It's so awesome to hang with your kid for a day - what a treat!
2) I had a meeting with a collaborator and things that I thought were bad are actually good - a HUGE relief!
3) We've been getting some rain, which is great!
4) My grant proposal that I started writing almost a year ago was funded! I now have a stable job for 2 more years!
5) My father in law surprised my mother in law by showing up at our house dressed as a homeless man. Who says romance is dead?
6) D got to meet his Poppop!
7) D is learning to "army crawl" or creep. He'll soon be mobile!
8) D is starting to roll over tummy to back. He seems quite surprised when it happens.
9) we took Grammy bird watching 
& saw some cool birds.
10) Work is good. Life is good. 
Birdwatching
In motion
Crawling with Poppop

Monday, February 24, 2014

Weekend pictures


Birdwatching with Grammy
Golden boy
Beach hike with Dad at Pt Reyes
Asleep
Now we are three
Asleep, but maintaining power
Sharing his new toy with Ducky
Happy
Tuckered